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Financing divorce during a cost-of-living crisis

Financing divorce during a cost-of-living crisis

Published: 28th November 2024

Divorce (or dissolution of a civil partnership) is a significant life decision and it’s natural to have questions about how it may impact your finances, especially during a cost-of-living crisis. While every situation is unique, separating doesn’t have to be as daunting or costly as you might fear. In fact, many people find that with the right guidance and support, they can navigate the process smoothly and start building a positive future.

In this blog, we explore ways to manage the costs of a separation in challenging economic times. We also offer practical ways to keep solicitor fees to a minimum, helping you take proactive steps towards your future; without overspending.

Reasons why not to delay writing your Will

Reasons why not to delay writing your Will

Published: 30th October 2024

So many of us put off writing our Wills, perhaps because we feel uncomfortable talking about death or simply believe it’s something to tackle later on in life. But making a Will is one of the most important and beneficial things you can do for yourself and your family. After all, life doesn’t follow a set timeline. There are many moments along the way which present great opportunities to put a Will in place – you could be starting a family, buying a home, or simply planning for the future. Creating a Will while you’re younger ensures the ones you care about most will be protected, whatever happens and whenever it happens, so that your assets go to the right people. In this blog, we explain why you shouldn’t put off making your Will, as well as the serious implications of dying without one.

Mediation – what are the benefits of early collaboration in separation and divorce?

Mediation – what are the benefits of early collaboration in separation and divorce?

Published: 24th September 2024

If you are splitting up with your partner, it’s natural that you may feel concerned by the prospects of conflict, a (potentially costly) legal battle, and emotional strain. ‘Talking things through’ may be a great way to resolve issues in many aspects of life but, when it comes to separation and divorce, that can feel like the hardest thing to do.

This is where mediation comes in. It’s a process where a neutral person, “the mediator”, helps you and your partner to communicate so that you reach agreements and avoid going to court. In this blog, we explain the key benefits of mediation and discuss how collaborating – from as early as day one – can bring real advantages for you and your family.

Surrogacy – Do we have to involve lawyers?

Surrogacy – Do we have to involve lawyers?

Published: 10th September 2024

Surrogacy in the UK is built on a foundation of trust and selflessness, with surrogates offering the chance for intended parents to experience the joy of parenthood when they’re unable to carry a child themselves. While surrogacy might seem like a personal arrangement that can be managed privately, the legal complexities involved are significant and cannot be overlooked. Understanding surrogacy law and the necessary legal procedures will be crucial for everyone from the very beginning.

Eleanor Tanner is a specialist solicitor here at K J Smith with extensive expertise and an avid interest in surrogacy law. She recently presented on the topic to the Ovom Clinic, a team of world class fertility specialists. In this blog, we’ll summarise Eleanor’s key points, explore why early legal advice is essential and discuss the vital role experts like her play in ensuring a smooth and legally compliant surrogacy process.

What is collaborative divorce and does it really work?

What is collaborative divorce and does it really work?

Published: 28th August 2024

Divorce can be one of the most challenging experiences in a person’s life, which can bring with it a degree of emotional pain and stress. It’s typically viewed as a process filled with conflict and hostility and so the whole idea of getting divorced could feel overwhelming.

Collaborative divorce offers couples an alternative route, one that prioritises co-operation and mutual agreement, allowing couples to avoid the pressure of going to court.

In this blog, we explore the process of collaborative divorce. We discuss the key benefits and potential drawbacks to help you decide if this potentially more compassionate approach could be right for you.

My child maintenance payments have stopped - what can i do?

My child maintenance payments have stopped - what can i do?

Published: 9th August 2024

We understand that, as a parent, your child’s well-being is your top priority. Ensuring they receive the financial support they need is an important part of that. If your child’s maintenance payments suddenly stop, this could create significant worry, as well as increased financial strain. Fortunately, there are several ways you can address the situation and restore your peace of mind. In this blog, we discuss different types of child maintenance arrangements and common issues that can lead to non-payment. We also outline helpful steps to secure payments and ensure your children’s needs are met.

Should I wait until after the summer holidays to begin a divorce?

Should I wait until after the summer holidays to begin a divorce?

Published: 31st July 2024

Can you begin a divorce in the summer holidays? And what are the benefits and drawbacks of a summer divorce?

The decision to divorce is never an easy one. If you have children, the timing of it can make things even more complex.

While divorce can happen at any time of the year, when it comes to the months of July and August, it’s often the case that couples wait until after the school holidays. But the summer is a period of extended family time when, understandably, marital tensions can increase, potentially putting more strain on relationships.

In this blog, we shed light on the considerations of initiating a divorce in the summer to help you make the right choice for you and your loved ones.

Understanding International Child Relocation – A Guide for Divorced and Separated Parents

Understanding International Child Relocation – A Guide for Divorced and Separated Parents

Published: 24th July 2024

After major life changes, such as divorce or separation, families often re-evaluate their current and future living arrangements. This can sometimes lead to one parent planning a move overseas with their children. ‘Child Relocation’ can be a challenging process, particularly if the other parent opposes a proposed move. If you’re planning to relocate overseas with your child, or are opposing such a move, this blog offers you a step-by-step guide to the legal process. It also signposts specialist support available that can help you achieve the outcome you desire for both you and your children.

What is ‘bird nesting’ and is it the right arrangement for my family?

What is ‘bird nesting’ and is it the right arrangement for my family?

Published: 4th July 2024

During and after divorce or separation, fostering a sense of stability and normality for children can be difficult. Making appropriate child arrangements to suit everyone can be a tricky undertaking. In this blog we explore bird nesting, a novel, child-centred approach that can offer a period of stability for families in their time of adjustment. We discuss the concept, some of the benefits and challenges, the essential, practical considerations, and tips for getting it right!

What are the financial considerations I need to know when getting divorced?

What are the financial considerations I need to know when getting divorced?

Published: 1st July 2024

Ensuring you and your family have a financially secure future is vitally important. But resolving financial matters during divorce or dissolution can be a tricky challenge. If you’re feeling daunted by the thought of dividing your assets and disentangling your financial arrangements, you’re not alone. Here, we outline the most important financial considerations, along with advice that can help pave your way to a stable future.

How to choose the right family law solicitor for you

How to choose the right family law solicitor for you

Published: 17th June 2024

There are all sorts of occasions in life where you could need the help of a family law solicitor and finding excellent legal support can make all the difference. The UK’s pool of legal experts is large and diverse. So, how do you go about narrowing down the field and finding a good match for you and your family? Let's delve into some sensible considerations and empowering steps you can take to find the right family lawyer for you.

Key questions to ask your family law solicitor in your first meeting

Key questions to ask your family law solicitor in your first meeting

Published: 14th June 2024

If you feel nervous about your initial consultation with a solicitor, you are not alone. It is a big first step and it can feel like you’re setting the official wheels in motion. Whether you’ve spent time researching your options or are acting on a recommendation from friends or family, this is your opportunity to meet the real people who could be accompanying you on your legal journey. Here we reveal the important questions you should be asking, along with our top tips for unlocking the full potential of your first meeting.

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